Face Your Pain. Sober.
Most men escape their pain through alcohol, porn, drugs, or distractions.
Here, you don’t escape.
You face it — and it changes you.
Your life keeps repeating because you keep avoiding pain.
When pain shows up, most men don’t face it.
They numb it.
Alcohol to relax.
Porn to feel something.
Work, sex, scrolling to stay busy.
The pain doesn’t disappear.
It waits.
And life brings it back —
through the same situations,
the same relationships,
the same inner emptiness.
This is why nothing truly changes.
Not because you’re broken.
But because the lesson was never faced.
Pain is not the enemy.
Avoidance is.
Until you stop running,
life will keep repeating itself.
What happens when men face it sober
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More stories coming soon — every session is different, but the transformation is real.
Why men enter these sessions
Most men live in distraction.
They know something is off, but they avoid the truth.
These sessions are for men ready to face it sober.
WHO I HELP
Men who use alcohol, weed, sex or distractions to avoid pain
Men stuck in emotional loops
Men who want discipline, clarity and direction
Men ready to face their emotions without fear
Men who understand transformation requires discomfort
WHO I DON’T HELP
Men looking for comfort or shortcuts
Men who want to stay numb
Men who avoid responsibility
Men who think porn, casual sex, and escapism are “just habits”
Men who aren’t ready to feel their pain fully
How it works in
4 simple steps
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Step 1 — You show up sober
Arrive without distractions. No alcohol. No porn. No drugs. Just yourself.
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Step 2 — We identify the pain you avoid
We uncover what you’ve been numbing, hiding, or running from.
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Step 3 — You face it (guided)
You experience it fully, without escape. Presence is the work.
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Step 4 — You leave clearer, steadier, stronger
The clarity you gain is immediate. You feel grounded. You feel in control.
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Pain is the initiation. And sobriety is the gate.
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I’ve been where you are
For years, I drowned in parties, lust, and marijuana.
I thought running from pain would make life easier.
It didn’t.I faced the same emptiness again and again.
Fear of judgment, old trauma, procrastination — all buried under distraction.Then I stopped running.
I faced the discomfort sober.
I sat with the feelings I had ignored for years.
I felt the pain, fully.Through this, I discovered something simple but powerful:
Pain is the teacher. Sobriety is the gateway.
And men become men by facing it together.This is why I created Lorenzo Listens.
To guide men who are ready to stop escaping,
to sit with their truth,
and finally gain clarity, presence, and strength.I don’t save you.
I guide you through what you’ve been avoiding.
Common Questions
Is this therapy?
No. This is not therapy. This is about presence, clarity, and facing what you’ve been avoiding.
What if I don’t know what to say?
That’s how most men start. You don’t need to prepare — the session unfolds naturally.
Is it really private?
100%. All sessions are confidential and one-on-one via secure video Zoom.
What if I feel uncomfortable?
Good. That means you’re touching the parts you’ve been avoiding. Sit with it. That’s where transformation begins.
I already feel anxious/overwhelmed. Can I handle it?
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need the courage to show up and face what’s there. That’s enough.
Is this for everyone? No. This is for men ready to stop numbing and start feeling sober. If you want comfort or distraction, this isn’t for you.
The doorway is open.
Now it’s your choice.
Enter the session. Sit with what you’ve been avoiding.
Leave clearer, steadier, stronger.
Only for men ready to stop running.
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